Alex Menhams

Bring a brick

When you truly surprise yourself, the ripples can last a long time.


In an improvisation class with Jules Munns some years ago he asked what skills or challenges we wanted to work on. I said that I kept hanging back, judging things, editing myself and that I wanted to follow my impulses and get more involved.

 

Jules looked me straight in the eye and said “OK Alex, I want you to move your feet EVERY SINGLE SECOND in this class. If your feet are not moving you’re in big trouble. Got it?”

 

So I moved my feet and toes, constantly. Sometimes hopping from side-to-side, sometimes just tapping on the floor, sometimes just moving my toes.


It felt strange at first but it worked like magic. I found myself jumping into scenes from the sidelines quite easily, even with only half a shit idea (to quote Katy Schutte).


The inner critic and inner editor in my head went silent (usually pretty vocal back then) but I didn’t really notice. I was too busy following my feet and having fun.

 

Later in the class, I was sat down watching another group performing (feet still jigging).  Usually when you are the audience you stay sitting down, but this time something else happened.


I saw something happening and I felt I could contribute something useful, and I jumped out of my seat and rushed on stage, following an impulse to get involved.


The players on stage were starting to make a house and I lay down on the floor in front of them as a brick in the foundations of a house. Somehow they understood this and built on top of me, rather than kicking me off the stage.


A few moments later the scene moved on and I headed back to my seat, my pulse racing.


Was that really me that jumped into the action? Me with the heavy duty impulse control?


As a platinum award-wining overthinker this moment came as a total surprise. I did somthing before I realised I had done it. No filtering, screening, judging. 


Something shifted in me that day. I realised that when I give trust to myself and others I can go with my impulses.

The funny thing (at least for me) is that there's a famous Del Close quote about improvisation along the lines of "You bring a brick and I'll bring a brick and let's build together."


For a brief moment I literally was a spontaneous brick. And they built on top of me. And I survived. And then I went back to my seat.


It might seem small, trivial even, but since then I've been much more willing to jump into the moment and to trust my instincts.


That doesn't mean I always get it right, but when I feel something needs to happen, I just do it.


There's probably a catchy slogan in there somewhere.


Thanks Jules for pushing me.


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I should say Jules knew exactly what I needed. He's good like that and this class took place on day four of an improvisation festival. So while I'm happy to be pushed, and I believe that improvisation reveals that we are more resilient and much less at-risk in social situations than we usually think, that doesn't mean I'll push you to get on your toes. Unless it's right for you too... Then maybe :-)

by Alex Menhams 08 Apr, 2021
‘Whose line is it anyway?’ was one of my favourite shows as a teenager. I would tune in every week on the small telly in my bedroom, captivated by the wit and dexterity of Paul Merton, Mike McShane and Josie Lawrence and others. But at school the next day with my friends we just talked about a few of the funny bits. We never tried any of the games. Isn’t that weird? As a kid I copied the things I loved and acted them out with friends. Like Monty Python’s Life of Brian which was virtually my second language. I could probably teach LOBSL. And I wish I had discovered improvisation 20 or more years ago! Fast forward 20 or so years... As someone who teaches improvisation now I get frustrated by the legacy of Whose Line. Not the actors or the show. Let me explain... When people ask what I do (and I reply truthfully) they usually say “Oh, I could never do that!” because they believe that to improvise you have to be fast, funny and clever. And that stuff just gets in the way. So why do people have this disempowering view of improvisation when it can be such an empowering human experience? Now I’m not laying all this at the door of a TV show from the late 80s. It's just that the show name is a killer meme. It's in the culture. Whose Line Is It Anyway? The focus on the lines freaks people out, and the answer becomes “Whose line? Not mine.” Placing the emphasis on whose line it is (and it had better be a good one, right?) inverts our natural pattern of communication which is roughly 55% body language, 38% vocal tone and 7% words. No wonder it sends people running for the hills. So here’s the good news. Improvisation follow the natural pattern and words and ideas are only 7% of the content. Sure a great line will get a laugh, but what our tender-loving mammal brains really love is making sense of relationships and all their absurdities, feelings, frustrations and joys. Perhaps the show should have been called ‘Whose feeling is it anyway?’. OK, that’s a terrible idea and the show would never have been made. But feelings are at the root of all this - we like watching human beings being human. So here’s a practical way of proving this for yourself with a co-conspirator. There’s an improvisational game you can play where the lines are replaced with numbers one to twenty one. No need for sophisticated dialogue - you just say one number when it’s your turn to speak. It goes like this: Player A - ‘One’ (frowning and jabbing a finger) Player B - ‘Two’ (shrugs it off) Player A - ‘Three’ (looks infuriated) The exchange of body language and vocal tone is full of meaning, and there will be a surprising amount of honesty and directness about it. The lines simply don’t matter. This kind of interaction is compelling to watch because we ‘read’ the body language so well. We understand all the subtle shifts of status and emotion that rise and fall with body position, eye contact and vocal tone. It is genuinely captivating and often hilarious. That’s what I love about improvisation. We can all do it. But we believe the lie that only special people can entertain us. That only special people are worth listening to. That our lines aren't good enough.
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